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The Courage to Be Disliked

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2013

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Background

Ideological Context: Adlerian Psychology and Greek Philosophy

The authors Kishimi and Koga situate themselves at the intersection of Alfred Adler’s psychological theories and tenets of Greek philosophy, specifically those of Socrates and Plato. When Kishimi encountered Adlerian psychology, he soon realized that it was compatible with the ideas so prevalent in Greek philosophy. Thus, his method of counseling, teaching, and writing reflects both ideologies.

Alfred Adler was an Austrian physician who turned to psychiatry at the beginning of the 20th century, around the same time that Sigmund Freud began to present his theories of psychoanalysis. Unlike Freud, who focused on early childhood sexual development as the main source of mental illness, Adler relied upon his own experience as a physician and began to consider a person’s health in a more holistic sense. Because of these fundamental philosophical differences, the two soon parted ways in their professional lives. Adler moved to the United States and continued writing, counseling, and teaching until his death in 1937. His theories can be summarized by his idea of individual psychology; he believed that human behavior is motivated by a desire to overcome feelings of inferiority. As a result, his work emphasizes the importance of social engagement, personal responsibility, and the capacity of individuals to change their own lives. He also emphasizes the importance of making contributions to community, engaging in self-acceptance, and recognizing the importance of the present moment in order to find happiness.

Socrates and Plato, two ancient Greek philosophers, both lived around 400 BCE. Socrates’s ideas are highly influential in modern Western philosophy, but they are only recorded thanks to Plato, his student and collaborator. In a direct reflection of his beliefs, Socrates preferred to engage with his ideas publicly in the form of dialogue. His main principles included the importance of critical thinking, self-knowledge, and questioning social norms. For his belief in critical thinking, he was eventually executed on charges of corrupting the youth.

Cultural Context: Modern Society Through a Japanese Lens

Written by two Japanese thinkers and writers, The Courage to Be Disliked both reflects and challenges common cultural norms in Japan and around the world—especially those that are most prevalent in modern life. In Japanese culture, great emphasis is placed upon adherence to social customs and the maintenance of a positive public image. Within the book, the philosopher’s ideas are designed to counter these dominant narratives by urging individuals to practice separation of tasks and build internal self-worth. The young man and the philosopher frequently discuss familial relationships, which are often strictly defined in Japan; for example, the smallest social unit is the family, rather than two individuals. Children are taught to respect their elders, and the family is viewed as a hierarchical structure. In the book, much of the young man’s anxiety stems from his desire for his parents’ approval. Because Kishimi and Koga recognize the pain that this conflict causes to individuals, their ideas run counter to the institution of hierarchy and ingrained desire for familial approval.

The book went viral on TikTok and has since been translated and published in 51 countries, garnering a positive international reception. Adler’s ideas about fostering community and contributing to others also challenge some aspects of 21st-century lifestyles, especially when it comes to online culture. When Adler originally wrote his theories, he considered “recognition from others” in the context of those located physically nearby (e.g., parents, friends, and coworkers). Now, however, “recognition from others” exists on a much grander scale. Due to the influence of the internet, both the desire for recognition and the pain associated with rejection are multiplied. Thus, while emphasizing the importance of community, the philosopher warns that reliance on recognition can strip a person of freedom and happiness. As evidenced by the book’s international success, this message retains its relevance amidst the new social pressures of the modern world.

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